Serving the Living and the Dead

Would you like to know how to deliver authentic, meaningful and compassionate funeral ceremonies that honour and celebrate the lives of the deceased and bring comfort to those they leave behind?

This in depth course leads you through a process of reflecting on all the skills and qualities needed to work with families at times of loss and trauma; to serve them in creating and conducting unique funerals to celebrate the lives of their loved ones; and to help lay the foundations for a healthy grieving and healing process.

Beginning with an exploration of your motivation, and what you bring to this important and privileged task and role, the course goes on to examine funeral celebrancy work in depth and detail, using the four elements and directions as a template for exploration. You’ll be guided through the practicalities of organising and conducting funerals, and liaising between bereaved families and the funeral professions. You will be supported to develop your listening, writing and speaking skills as you prepare for and practice the tasks of funeral celebrancy. You’ll look at how to create fitting celebrations of life, whatever the age or circumstances of death; and reflect on the deep emotional and spiritual processes which a good funeral can support.

Cost: £880 / 3 payments of £300

Underpinning the whole course is an approach to celebrancy as service, in the context of nature based spiritual practices, and a focus on the creation of authentic ceremony.

Sessions

We’ll begin the course with an exploration of what makes a good funeral, and you’ll be invited to identify your own strengths and areas for development as we look at the skills and qualities, experience and gifts needed for the work of funeral celebrancy. We’ll take an overview of the many and varied tasks of the funeral celebrant, and your first assignment will invite you to connect with and draw upon your sources of spiritual support and inspiration as you begin to develop a strong foundation for your future practice.

In this session we’ll explore the historical context of our work, and focus on the practicalities of funeral celebrancy. We’ll look at the funeral business, from its origins to the latest developments. We’ll examine the overall structure of the funeral service; and consider some practicalities, basics and traditions, and what might be expected of you in working with funeral directors, crematoria and burial grounds. The session completes with a discussion of the sources of wisdom and tradition that can be accessed from the realm of ancestors, and a guided meditation to help us access these.

Here we will focus on the communication skills which are vital to our work as celebrants. You’ll be guided through the process of working closely with a bereaved family to prepare, write and conduct a funeral service. We’ll explore the skills needed at each stage in this process: focussing on listening, writing and public speaking. You’ll be given a list of top tips for gathering material, writing and delivering eulogies, and the opportunity to practice all of these skills in your next assignment.

Here we will focus on serving the living, as we consider the importance of celebrating each unique life, and how to put together a funeral service which reflects and honours the individual as well as bringing together and involving the family and community they leave behind. We’ll also reflect on the power and responsibility which comes with the role of celebrant, and to think about the kinds of challenges we are likely to encounter through this work: the situations we may be called upon to deal with; and the aspects of ourselves we may be confronted with. You’ll be given, and invited to add to, a store of resources in the form of readings, prayers and blessings. This lesson’s assignment invites you to reflect on planning a celebration of life.

As we move to the West, our focus will be on honouring the great mystery of death, and on navigating the emotional depths we will encounter through this work; both our own, and those of the newly bereaved.  We’ll consider the role of celebrant in serving the dead, and consider the transformation which the funeral service is designed to facilitate as we focus on the moment of committal. We will also look at the role of the celebrant in supporting the bereaved and at how the work of funeral celebrancy relates to our own healing journey, before completing the session with a guided journey to seek inspiration, guidance and spiritual support from the natural world. This lesson’s assignment focuses on how to support the onward journey of the bereaved as you bring each funeral to a close.

In this, our final session, we will review the journey made on this course, and also look ahead at the journey you now embark upon. You’ll be guided to explore your aims and aspirations, set some practical goals, and consider your needs for ongoing learning and support; and you’ll be given some practical suggestions for finding work as a funeral celebrant. We’ll look at the wider context of this work, and at how we can all help to challenge the taboo and denial which has become so endemic in modern society. The course ends with a Ceremony of Completion, which can be adapted to suit your own beliefs, outlooks and practices.

Course Delivery

No special software is required to access the course. The course is delivered via six online lessons which you can work through at your own pace. Course materials include video and audio presentations; downloadable documents, and many examples drawn from real-life ceremonies; resource lists and suggestions for your own research; two guided meditations and a ceremony of completion. The course and all materials will remain accessible and free to review at any time.

These self access sessions are supported by an interactive course platform where students can ask questions, participate in discussions, submit assignments and receive feedback on their work, as well as a rolling programme of drop-in webinars with the course tutor. Each session is followed by assignments to be completed in your own time. A certificate will be awarded to all students who successfully complete and submit the six mandatory assignments.

River Jones, Celebrant

About the tutor

River Jones is a celebrant with over twenty five years’ experience of delivering bespoke ceremonies for people from all walks of life. With a background in adult education and community outreach she worked for over fourteen years at the University of Sussex, where she taught and convened courses ranging from Creative Writing through to Shamanic Consciousness. She has been course director at School of Celebrancy since 2015, as well as delivering events and workshops for organisations such as the Celebrants Collective and the Association of Independent Celebrants. River has conducted hundreds of ceremonies and shares her knowledge, resources, and many examples of rituals drawn from her wide range of experience as a celebrant.
To find out more about River’s Celebrancy work see www.celebrantforyourceremony.com

What People Say

Jacki Clement, Cornwall, UK
I found this course to be really useful and informative. It has been an excellent grounding in celebrancy as service. I have a much better understanding of how I can be of service to clients, and how I can hold the space to create a sacred and meaningful ceremony for them.
Awen Rowan-Nelson, Washington, USA
As a former professor, I recognize a well-prepared, knowledgeable, and experienced instructor when I encounter one, and River is all of these things…This course is thoughtfully designed, well organized, and professionally executed, and, just as importantly, it is a wee bit magical.
Chrissy Fice, Hampshire, UK
The online learning suited me perfectly, being able to pick it up in the bursts of time life affords us. But I also felt good connections through the online chats and videos. I can't thank you enough for sharing so much of your experience.
Colette Corcoran, Vienna, Austria
I have really enjoyed doing this course…it has offered me much food for thought. I am now much clearer on how to conduct and hold ceremonies and what essence I want to bring to them.
Shawn O’Niel, Washington State, USA
River, as an instructor and guide, we couldn't ask for better. Your experience, dedication, knowledge, and communication skills are incredible. You offer so much… making the course both enjoyable and exceptional.
Tabitha Taylor, London, UK
I am so happy to complete the course! It has been even more meaningful than I had anticipated and I am very grateful to you for such excellent course material. It really has been a fantastic course and I have learnt a lot.
Daniel Smith, Hampshire, UK
The course was easy to follow with a perfect mix of media to maintain interest and ensure all learning styles are catered for. The downloadable resources are invaluable. Having examples and templates offers a reassuring guide to my first opportunities when they come, which I'm sure they will.
Casey Das, Arizona, USA
The course itself was incredibly interesting… I've been an ordained minister with the Universal Brotherhood Movement for many years… This course was particularly helpful in broadening my understanding of various ceremonies and refining my preparation process. Overall, this was an incredible experience, and I'm deeply grateful for it.
Shawn O’Niel, Washington State, USA
The lessons were the right length, the included videos, links, attachments, suggested reading materials, and meditations were all of great help… River's reviews were very helpful and aided me in fine tuning where I needed to improve.
Jacki Clement, Cornwall, UK
The videos, downloads and sample ceremonies were invaluable. I’ve been encouraged and inspired to continue to deepen my connection with nature, my fellow humans, myself and with spirit. I’m grateful for the time, effort and love that has been put into this course for the benefit of us all.
Holly Keithth, Essex, UK
My experience on this course has been nothing but positive. I feel I have grown to understand the delicacies of holding space in a way that serves and holds others. I also feel inspired and permitted to create ceremonies in my own way that feel authentic to me, whilst also fully reflecting others. My creative side has felt nourished, writing beautiful words and coming up with beautiful ideas for others. But I have also been pushed.
Ulf Leonhard, Jettenbach Germany
The course was interesting and instructive for me. I took away valuable tools so that I have a good framework for creating my own ceremonies.
Awen Rowan-Nelson, Washington, USA
I recommend this course highly to anyone who wishes to create unique, individualized ceremonies and rituals, and to perform them with grace, humor, and excellence.
Peter Müllerlei, Nuremberg, Germany
I really liked getting an individual answer to every homework assignment and always being met where I was in a very friendly manner…it was nice to get lots of different examples and also to have more organizational topics discussed [which] made it easier for me to now take the step and offer my services publicly.
Shawn O’Niel, Washington State, USA - SLD 2025
I am very impressed with this course… it is self-paced [so] I was able to work on it at my leisure without deadlines … and review as needed. I really liked that I was able to use personal experience and create my own items throughout.
Eve Salthouse, Cornwall, UK
The course has been wonderful. The wisdom in the lessons, the resources. The practical information. The monthly get togethers. Knowing that there is someone I can turn to as I take these first steps. It’s been an amazing time.

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